The Story of ‘Dear Sister’

When I became Catholic, one of my deepest desires was to connect with other women of faith—women who could walk with me, challenge me, and inspire me to grow in God’s will. That longing became Dear Sister, a Catholic women’s correspondence club built on the belief that we are not meant to walk this journey alone.

The inspiration comes from Mary and Elizabeth in the Visitation—two women, each carrying something sacred, who rejoiced and strengthened each other in the midst of uncertainty. Like them, we are called to encourage one another to be brave, faithful, and open to God’s will, even when it’s difficult or inconvenient. This is what Dear Sister is about: creating intentional, prayerful connections between Catholic women around the world.

Whether you’re a convert, cradle Catholic, religious sister, mother, single woman, or seeker, Dear Sister offers a tailored pen pal experience based on your vocation, age, stage of faith, and your personal hopes for friendship. Each match is made by hand—because real connection deserves real care.

How Does the Correspondence Club Work?

We match Catholic women around the world in spiritual sisterhoods—uniting them in prayer, encouragement, and the joy of sharing their faith journey by hand and heart. Our Catholic women’s pen pals program is designed to nurture meaningful connections through the timeless art of Catholic letter writing. Whether you’re looking for faith-filled friendship, deeper prayer life support, or simply a kindred spirit, our Catholic women’s group is here for you.

The Process:

  • We personally match you with a pen pal based on your background, preferences, and spiritual goals.
  • You’ll be introduced to your pen pal via email and can then decide whether to exchange mailing addresses if you’re comfortable.
  • You’re free to correspond as often or as little as you like—this is a gentle, grace-filled connection on your terms.
  • Sign up below to join our latest quarterly intake and begin your journey of faith-filled friendship.

Optional Donation

The “Dear Sister” Catholic Correspondence Club is a free service, born out of a desire to foster meaningful connections within our faith community. Running this club requires a significant time investment, and if you feel called to support this ministry, a small donation would be greatly appreciated. Your generosity helps us continue this work of building sisterhood in Christ, but please only give what you can afford—your participation alone is a blessing!

Catholic Women’s Penpal Inquiry Form

Your personal data will be kept strictly confidential and will be deleted following a successful match. This information will be used exclusively for the purpose of pairing you with a pen pal. Upon a successful match, only your preferred name and email address will be shared with your matched partner. By signing up for this free service, you also agree to receive our newsletter emails.

PLEASE NOTE: In order to maintain a high quality of matches, the summer intake will close either on May 30th, OR once we have received over 100 applications (whichever is sooner).

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This Intake Window Has Now Been Closed!

Thank you for all your submissions. The next intake window will open in the autumn 2025. The exact date will be published in due course.